Dealing with the death
of a loved one can create an enormous amount of stress. That stress can be
compounded when you sift through the decedent's possessions, as that may evoke
strong emotions. But at some point, it will be necessary to dispose of those
personal property items. If you are the appointed personal representative (PR),
you have some work cut out for you.
Having been the PR for my parents' estate a few years ago, I remember the process. Been there, done that. It takes up a lot of time and energy.
If the estate includes a homestead to be prepared for sale, it will be necessary to
have those personal items cleared out at some point. If there is property in a storage locker, that will need to be disposed of, as well.
If the decedent left a tangible personal property gifts list, those listed items can be distributed. This may
include family keepsakes, collectibles and other items that are given to the
heirs when the estate is settled.
What remains outside of that
can still be a mountain of stuff, but it is considered part of the estate
and therefore it must be accounted for. Furniture, household goods, tools, vehicles,
etc., have value and should be sorted and prepared for sale. Keep a detailed
list of items in a notebook or a spreadsheet.
The personal representative
is tasked with disposing of the property, and if the estate is being probated,
the PR will be responsible for making an accounting of estate assets. As a
fiduciary, the PR has a duty to act in the best interests of the estate to
preserve and maximize the value of the assets.
An important task is to
secure the property. The personal representative should take all necessary
steps to ensure that none of the assets "grow legs and walk out the door."
This may require you to change the locks on the doors of the house. It's not
uncommon for family members to show up and start digging into things, often
with the view that "I'm going to inherit it anyway." You need to enforce a "look, but don't take" policy. However, it's
generally OK to distribute a few small family mementos beforehand.
Legally, the assets remain the property of the estate of the deceased until it
is time to distribute them to the beneficiaries at the end of probate, after
creditors have been paid. If you are the appointed PR, your duty to the estate
requires you stand firm on this issue. You may not be popular with some of the
heirs, but such is the role of being PR.
There are a number of
ways to effectively dispose of personal property items. You can hold an estate
sale, often conducted in a similar manner as a garage sale. Certain items of
known worth can be sold off individually. Be sure to keep
receipts for any such sale, and deposit the sale proceeds into the estate
account. DO NOT deposit any estate funds in your own account, as that is a big red flag that the probate court will take a dim view of.
If you don't have
the time or patience to organize the goods and sell them yourself it might be more
efficient to hire an estate sale company to sell them. Given the current COVID-19 pandemic, you might not want to be engaged in transactions with a bunch of strangers wandering through the house.
High value items, such
as jewelry, coin collections, artwork, firearms, motor vehicles, etc., should
be appraised before bringing in an estate sale company, so that you can have a
rough idea as to the worth of the items. Estate sale companies often charge a
commission, typically between 25 and 50 percent of the sale proceeds, so it is
in their best interest to get the maximum sale price for the items.
Many of these estate sale
companies employ people who are adept at determining the value of items. Don't
throw anything away unless you are certain that it cannot be converted to cash. You
might be surprised at what that ordinary-looking "pile of junk" can
fetch.
When looking for an
estate sale company, do some research and talk to more than one. That industry
is unregulated and no doubt there are some bad ones. If you have the
time, attend one of their sales and observe how it is conducted. Ask friends and colleagues, look
at online reviews, check the Better Business Bureau. Ask the estate sale
company for references.
If you are disposing of
the assets yourself through a private estate sale, you will likely end up with many items
that don't sell. Old clothing, kitchen items, knick knacks and such
can be donated to thrift stores, like the Salvation Army. Non-perishable food left in the pantry can be given to a local food shelf. If you donate, get
receipts for tax-deduction purposes.
After that, there will
be things that should be thrown out. Broken and soiled items, containers of
household chemicals, outdated clothing, junk, and "white elephant"
items are best tossed out. If you anticipate there being a large amount of
those kinds of throwaway items, you may need to rent a roll away dumpster.
Clearing out personal belongings can be a huge task. But as personal representative, you can enlist the help of a family member or two to help. But as PR, you are in charge and you must make it clear that property items and the proceeds they bring must be accounted for.